Judgement
They categorized us based on an outward superficial thing they know about us. That thing is wavy, ghostly, deceptive, and alluring. They won't hear us out no matter how constantly we tried to change that perspective they formed about us. I guess that happens, sometimes as in my case right now, not because they truly believe we won't change, but because they don't want to. They don't want to believe that we could actually change, because that will face them with the unknown. They will be telling themselves: "what if I gave them another chance and actually heard them out, and still they didn't make that change?" That would be too frustrating. Yet the question remains: Would you still give them another chance and make yourself susceptible to frustration or more? I personally would.